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The Person You Could've Been: Finding Your Way Back to Yourself
I recently heard Viola Davis open a speech with a quote that absolutely wrecked me: "The definition of hell is on your last day on earth, the person you became gets to meet the person you could've been." I had to sit with that one for a minute. Maybe ten...
Why Queer Joy Is the Ultimate Resistance (Especially in Florida Right Now)
Let me paint you a picture. It's a random Tuesday evening in Florida. The sun is doing that thing where it turns the sky ridiculous shades of pink and orange (because Florida sunsets don't know how to be subtle). Somewhere, a group of queer friends is gathered...
Beyond the Headlines , Finding Your People When the News Feels Like an Attack
If you've been feeling like every time you open your phone, another piece of legislation is trying to erase you, you're not imagining it. And if the weight of that has started to feel unbearable, I want you to know something: you're not weak. You're...
Let Us Live: Finding Joy and Community in the Midst of Tallahassee's Attacks
Today, as I write this, people are gathering in Tallahassee for the "Let Us Live" March. Some are wearing bright colors. Some are holding signs they made at their kitchen tables last night. Some are nervous. Some are fired up. And all of them are showing up...
4 Florida Bills We Need to Fight Right Now (And How to Do It)
Look, I'm not going to sugarcoat it: the 2026 Florida legislative session is already shaping up to be a lot. As someone who's trans, runs a mental health practice, and has been watching Tallahassee like a hawk for years now, I can tell you that this session...
HB 743 & The Chilling Effect: What the New 'Healthcare Lawsuit' Bill Means for Florida's LGBTQ+ Community
Let's talk about HB 743. If you've been keeping an eye on Florida's legislative session (or if your doom-scrolling has taken a particularly pointed turn lately), you've probably seen this bill making the rounds. It just passed the House Criminal...
LGBTQ+ and Neurodivergent? 5 Signs Your Therapist Actually Gets It
So you've done the homework. You searched the directories, filtered by "LGBTQ+ affirming," maybe even asked some pointed questions in a consultation call. But here's the thing about finding a therapist who truly gets the intersection of being queer...
Trans and Neurodivergent? 5 Steps to Find a Therapist Who Understands Both (Easy Guide)
Let's be real for a second: finding a therapist is hard enough. Finding one who actually gets what it's like to be trans? That narrows the pool significantly. Now add neurodivergence, ADHD, autism, AuDHD, into the mix, and suddenly you're looking for a...
Trans and Neurodivergent? 5 Steps to Find a Therapist Who Understands Both
Part 1 of our Neuro-Queer series on finding a therapist who actually gets it. Let's be real for a second: finding a therapist who understands your trans identity is hard enough. Finding one who also gets your ADHD brain, your autism, or your sensory needs? That...
